I absolutely agree it needs to be crystal clear what is happening. Maybe even an explanation in the wallet itself so newbies don't panic. I can see the trolls on bitcointalk now; "The wallet is stealing your money!"
lol yes exactly. Clear as day with an explanation would be great. So people know why it is necessary, for the blockchain etc. But as people do have an option for no fee = no denon thats good.......having said that, as long as they are CLEAR that it's then NOT annon. lol.
An anon coin which isn't non anon (due to user options), should be very clear.